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Lynn Bender
Hanks
d. Dec 17, 2025
SHERMAN- Shirley "Lynn" Bender Hanks, 79, of Sherman, NY, and formerly of New York, NY, passed away peacefully in her home on Wednesday, December 17, 2025. She was born December 18, 1945, in Wilkensburg, PA, the daughter of the late Harry and Leila Mae Miller Bender.
Lynn had been a designer and ballet dancer in New York City. She had also been the Gallery Manager for Show of Hands art gallery, also in New York City. She enjoyed reading, listening to NPR, gardening, and sitting out in nature watching the animals.
Lynn is survived by her son, James Hanks of New York, NY, three sisters, Carol (David), Barbara (Terry) and Peggy (Thomas), and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband, Thompson "Toby" Hanks Jr, whom she married on January 3, 1973.
At Lynn's request, there will be no public services held. A celebration of life will be held at a future date and will be announced.
To leave a remembrance or to post condolences to the family, please visit freayfuneralhome.com
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